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Thirty Things Before Turning 30 Update

April 24, 2017

Last year on my 29th birthday, I posted a list of thirty things everyone should do before turning 30.  This year has flown by, and I cannot believe that on Friday I will be entering a new decade in my life.  Even though I didn’t accomplish all 30 things on my list, I feel pretty good about what I did.  Thirteen out of thirty is not great, but I still have more time to work on them.  Life is all about success and failures, because you learn a lot from the times you don’t accomplish a goal.  Here is my honest update on how I did.

30 things to do before turning 30

1. Learn something new

I wanted to learn how to sew and never actually did.  This is still something I want to try to learn soon. Maybe I can teach myself during our long drives in Maeve this summer.

2. Visit a new foreign country

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We visited Greece for 2 weeks last summer and had the most magical time.  Read about Athens, Mykonos, and Santorini. My twenties were full of visiting foreign countries, road trips in the United States, cool cities, and beaches.  I can’t wait to see where we go next.

3. Run (at least) a half marathon

Unfortunately, I was unable to accomplish this goal, but it is still one of my goals for 2017. 

4. Spend the weekend in the state capitol

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Not only did we visit Austin, but we spent the weekend at ACL.  I no longer can say I haven’t spent time in Austin. Yay!

5. Go hiking/camping

We went camping twice and have an entire 3 weeks of camping planned for the summer. Colton and I bought a Westy this year and took her on her first camping trip to Arkansas.

6. Girls’ trip

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Check.  One of my best friends Hannah and I went to Mexico and it was the perfect little getaway.

7. Spend a day local wine tasting

No. I am still not sure why this one never happened.

8. Make a dream come true

Colton started a new job and has been so busy, so we haven’t had time to open the little shop yet.

9. Break a record

Not this year.

1o. Learn a new dance

I guess the dab doesn’t count on this one, however I did take several barredio classes this year and worked on my dancing skills.

11. #Adult

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This one may seem strange, but I have needed my wisdom teeth removed since I was a teenager. I finally did it! You can even see my post-op video here.

12. Learn to bake/cook something

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I wanted to learn how to bake the chocolate avocado cake from Mexican sugar, but I have taught myself several other things, including this copycat stuffed avocados from Urban Rio.

13. Accomplish a career goal

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Love You More Too did way better than I ever imagined in the first year.  You can check out some of the things I learned blogging the first year.

14. Skydive

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One of the most amazing things I have experienced.  Everyone should try this at some point in their life.

15. Solo photoshoot

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Portrait of Jessica Bradshaw for The Redhead Project

Check.  I still don’t love taking photos by myself, but I loved getting to be a part of The Redhead Project.  Keith Barraclough created this fantastic project and I encourage you to check it out.

16. Break a bad habit

I am currently in the process of breaking my habit of nail biting.  Better late than never! Honestly, it’s been fun watching my nails grow a little every day.

17. Meet someone you admire

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Photo by Danny Mai Photography

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Blog and Brunch DFW

Initially, I meant this goal as meeting a celebrity, however I realize I meet people I admire all of the time.  Blogging has introduced me to some of the most determined, kind-hearted, food-loving, fun and daring people.  Each person I have met through this industry has had an impact on me and I am so grateful.  I would love to list out each person and their blog individually, but I know I would accidentally leave someone off and feel horrible.  Between Dallas Fitness Ambassadors, Blog and Brunch DFW, Dallas Blogger Brunch, Plano Magazine’s list of bloggers, and all the meetups in between, the Dallas blogging community is fantastic.

18. Accomplish a physical goal

I still cannot do 30 pushups without dropping to my knees, but I am building up my strength.  In barre, I use the 3 lb weights more than 2 though (don’t roll your eyes at smaller weights until you try it, please).

19. Complete a 30 day yoga/stretch challenge

No. My body needs stretching and I still haven’t made it a priority (just being honest).  This is something I want to work on this year.

20. Eat vegan for a week…

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I did it!  I have even incorporated Meatless Mondays into my every week diet.

21. Try a new ethnic restaurant

A few times this year I have tried sushi, which is a big deal for me.  However, I still haven’t expanded my restaurant tastes, despite Colton asking and trying.

22. Plant/Grow/Garden

I still haven’t started it, but I have kept a succulent alive for 10 weeks so far.  We have to build a garden up to keep Chuck and Lucy out of it, so this is a large project we haven’t taken on yet.

23. Complete a list

I wanted to complete this list, but it changes periodically. We have been great at trying new and fun restaurants, but haven’t been to all of them. 

24. Mission trip/work

We have been blessed to be able to help out with several friends going on mission trips, but not go on any ourselves yet.

25. Use up gift card balances

Yes!!  I got rid of all of them/used them all up. 

26. Organize old files

I got rid of my filing cabinet and will be working on weeding through the files this summer. Yay for progress!

27. Read

My goal was to read 8 books, but I didn’t close. I read a few, so hopefully the road trips this summer will be a chance for me to slow down and read.

28. Make something

Not that I intentionally made from Pinterest. 

29. Simplify

This is something I have been working on slowly but surely. It will be finished by the end of the summer.

30. Write a thank you card to 30 people

I shared thank you note etiquette and wrote several cards this year, but not any just because. 

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What would be on our 30 things before 30 list?  Leave me a comment below!

  • Kim April 24, 2017 at 6:15 am

    Love this list, really interesting! I’ve ticked quite a few off already and I have four more years to do the rest…better get going!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:31 am

      Thank you, Kim! You can do it! Oh to have 4 more years. haha. 🙂

  • Lecy | A Simpler Grace April 24, 2017 at 6:56 am

    Happy birthday, Jessica! It’s awesome that you’ve accomplished so many of your goals!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:32 am

      Thanks girl. It’s so easy to focus on the things I didn’t do, but I love being proud of what I have accomplished.

  • Giustina April 24, 2017 at 7:24 am

    Happy birthday!! Your list is awesome & has inspired me to create one too! Thanks! <3

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:32 am

      Yay! Can’t wait to see what you put on your list!

  • Kate April 24, 2017 at 7:41 am

    I love this list! It’s a really wide array of things that are actually possible to do! So many bloggers post stuff like this and they’re all so unachieveable, this actually has given me some ideas on what kind of things I want to do. Particularly a photoshoot stuck out and a half marathon (maybe a full but it does take a lot of time to train also I totally can’t even do 1 pushup without falling to my knees so 30 is impressive!)
    Kate || http://www.katerattley.com

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:33 am

      Thank you, Kate! I like thinking out of the box, but making goals that are attainable. 🙂

  • Harmony, Momma To Go April 24, 2017 at 8:07 am

    I’m super impressed you can use the 3lb at barre!!! What a cool list, happy almost birthday!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:34 am

      Thank you! It’s one of my biggest physical accomplishments this year.

  • Rachel G April 24, 2017 at 8:27 am

    Sounds like you had a pretty amazing last year in your 20s! Your travels look like they were especially exciting! I got my wisdom teeth out when I was 17…and if I knew what I was getting into at the time, I don’t think I would have been brave enough to do it!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:34 am

      Right?! It was not the most fun experience but I am so thankful it is over!

  • Beth Kondrick April 24, 2017 at 9:27 am

    You definitely hit a bunch of these and that is awesome! I should create a similar list for 40, it would give me five years to accomplish anyway!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:35 am

      You totally should! I would love to see what you put on it!

  • Tomiko April 24, 2017 at 9:46 am

    I guess I’m on the right track cause I’ve done most of these but I’m 46 😩😩😩😩😩😩

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:35 am

      That’s awesome! You are never too old to start reaching goals.

  • Brooke April 24, 2017 at 10:47 am

    I love this list! The #adult is my favorite. I am about to turn 31 and do not feel any more like an adult than at 22. Does that ever change?

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:35 am

      Haha. I don’t think so. We are young forever!

  • Larissa April 24, 2017 at 10:54 am

    I love this list! I feel like I should make one for myself. I loved the adulting one and the self photo shoot with the cupcakes. Super cute! For this list, I know I could never complete it, because I don’t think I’ll run a half marathon, and I definitely will not be going sky-diving!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:36 am

      Thank you!! Sky diving isn’t for everyone, but it was such an incredible experience. 🙂

  • Martina April 24, 2017 at 10:56 am

    3 is definitely on my to do! Maybe it will be good motivation to get back in shape post baby!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:37 am

      I can’t wait to check this one off my list either!

  • Kim April 24, 2017 at 12:02 pm

    This is an awesome list. I have a few of these crossed off my list. Happy Early birthday!!!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:37 am

      Thank you!! Way to go for crossing some off yourself. 🙂

  • Emily April 24, 2017 at 12:04 pm

    Your list is awesome! I have always wanted to skydive, but then I always get scared lol. Congrats on accomplishing your goals!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:38 am

      Thank you, Emily!! You should definitely try it. It’s not as scary as it seems.

  • Kelly April 24, 2017 at 1:57 pm

    This is a great list! I definitely need to master #16 (cracking my knuckles) – but I’m 32… am I too late!? 😉

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:38 am

      Never too late!

  • Divya April 24, 2017 at 2:34 pm

    You had quite the productive year! Although I AM a bit surprised about not wine tasting for a day yet! (That’d be the #1 thing I’d check off my list, hahaha!)

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:39 am

      Haha. I know!! I have in other countries, just not locally. I will be doing that at some point this year.

  • Alicia Pope April 24, 2017 at 2:45 pm

    I love the solo photo shoot. That’s now on my list of things to do before I’m 35 😉 Also – congrats on the blog! I always love your pictures.

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:39 am

      Thank you, Alicia. It was a random one, but I am glad I included it.

  • April Kitchens April 24, 2017 at 3:55 pm

    I just turned 30, and I have to do these things! I’m a little late though lol.

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:39 am

      Never too late!!

  • Nancy April 24, 2017 at 4:01 pm

    I’m so impressed! Skydiving–wow!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:40 am

      I know! It was so incredible though.

  • Kimberly @ Berly's Kitchen April 24, 2017 at 5:36 pm

    It is so awesome that you made a list and actively worked toward meeting those goals. You have so many fun things listed. Can’t wait to see what you do next.

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:40 am

      Thanks, girl! It was a fun adventure.

  • San April 24, 2017 at 6:55 pm

    I love your list! I’ve always been a little lazy with putting lists together for big birthdays, but maybe I should get on that. Love the solo photoshoot photo!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:40 am

      Thank you! It was so much fun!

  • ShootingStarsMag April 24, 2017 at 7:14 pm

    You did a good job! I really want to make one of these lists too. I’d put go indoor skydiving on mine.

    -Lauren

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:41 am

      Hey! That is a great idea if you don’t think you would ever try it outdoors. I hear that it’s pretty fun!

  • texerinsydney April 24, 2017 at 7:33 pm

    I have a 50 Before 50 list (because I’m old…er…), so I enjoy reading these.
    I really adore how your “meet someone you admire” evolved from a celebrity to passionate ladies of blogging 🙂

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:42 am

      Thank you! I am a big fan of list-making so I think it’s awesome you have a 50 before 50!

  • dixya @food, pleasure, and health April 24, 2017 at 7:41 pm

    we can easily knock off #7 at grapevine or somewhere local. lets do it 🙂

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:42 am

      Yes!! That was my thinking! That would be so fun.

  • Anna April 25, 2017 at 6:51 am

    Love your list , I’ve done few of these but I wish I made list before I turned 30. This is interesting and fun.

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:43 am

      Thank you, Anna! It’s never too late to create your own list for whatever you want.

  • Rachel R Ritlop April 25, 2017 at 6:51 am

    Awe love this!!! Also those photos of the cake and post op are too much! hahaha!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:43 am

      haha. Thank you. It was a fun shoot.

  • mei April 25, 2017 at 9:52 am

    I wish i read this 3 years ago. But i think i accomplished 80% of the list. i am 33 now and loving it 🙂 thank you for sharing. Those turning 30 should listen 🙂

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:43 am

      WAy to go!! 80% is a ton!

  • Trish @ The Trish List April 25, 2017 at 11:06 am

    You have a really great list! I love all the ideas! I am in my 30s, but something to accomplish before 40!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:44 am

      Yes! For sure!

  • Sarah Althouse April 25, 2017 at 11:31 am

    Congrats on achieving all that you did. I’m sure 31 will be just as amazing. 🙂

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:44 am

      Thank you! I bet it will be too. 🙂

  • krysten April 25, 2017 at 11:47 am

    These are great things to accomplish before you turn 30. I have done about 3/4 of them and I have 3 years until the rest are due. lol

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:45 am

      You still have so much time!! That’s a lot to cross of so far.

  • Eryn April 25, 2017 at 3:32 pm

    I LOVE these ideas! I’m 31 and haven’t done some of these, but I’m going to make them my goals by 40! 😉

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:46 am

      Yes! Great idea!!

  • suzanne April 25, 2017 at 4:38 pm

    Love this list! And congrats on a successful first year of blogging 🙂

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:46 am

      Thank you! It’s been a whirlwind year for sure.

  • Tuyet April 25, 2017 at 6:17 pm

    I guess I need to get started then! Thanks for sharing. kimballandkedzie.com

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:46 am

      Of course!Good luck! 🙂

  • Alex April 25, 2017 at 6:56 pm

    Some great goals! I love ACL, we try to go every year. Hoping the lineup is a good one for this fall!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:47 am

      It was fun, but I think I am a one and down kind of girl for it. haha. We are headed to Hangout Fest in a couple of weeks and I think I will retire my festival hat after that. haha.

  • lisa thomson April 25, 2017 at 7:08 pm

    I’m really impressed with your list! A couple of these i have only just accomplished and I’m a little ahead of you in decades (ahem). I just had my wisdom teeth out a few years ago—yuck. They didn’t come in until I was in my mid-thirties so the dentist has been telling me for a while to get rid of them. Check. Love the pic of you—haha. Skydiving? Wow!! Not sure I have the guts for that. A girl’s weekend away somewhere warm would be amazing. I can’t seem to harness the girls for a trip, although we do stay a night in the city locally once or twice a year. Couldn’t make it without the girlfriends! I would love to see Greece. You’ve inspired me to write a list for my next birthday.

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:49 am

      Thank you! The wisdom teeth was not a fun experience but I am so glad it’s over. You could totally skydive! It’s something everyone should experience at least once. I understand getting everyone together can be hard, but it’s worth it for a little weekend together. I can’t wait to see what’s on your list!

  • salwa kisswani April 25, 2017 at 7:11 pm

    I’m half way there!! lol not alot left. so I’m good

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:49 am

      Haha. SO close!

  • Mira April 25, 2017 at 10:45 pm

    How lovely, happy birthday! The wisdom tooth photo is priceless! 🙂

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:49 am

      Thank you. It was a humbling experience for sure. haha

  • Julie Torres April 26, 2017 at 12:30 pm

    What a great list & happy birthday! So many great things…. even if you are over 30!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:50 am

      I agree completely!!

  • Sara April 27, 2017 at 10:34 am

    Congrats on all the adventures you’ve had as you approach this new milestone!! It’s fun to look back and see all the amazing things you’ve been able to accomplish. It’s easy to lose sight of those sometimes.

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:51 am

      Thank you! I agree. It’s so fun to celebrate the successes.

  • Meghan April 28, 2017 at 2:11 pm

    I absolutely love this!! I still have a lot of accomplish on this list and I am over 30 😉 But I will get there!

    • Jessica May 2, 2017 at 10:51 am

      Thanks dear!! Yes you will!